When it comes to Social Engineering does one gender have an advantage over another? Should some approaches only be done by a Female and some only be done by a male? When nonverbal expressions and micro-expressions are universal and can be read by anyone trained can either gender social engineer a situation regardless of the target and the environment? In this talk we will look at the science- the anecdotal evidence and have some audience participation to test out the idea does gender really matter in Social Engineering.